Why every time I fight with my husband he finds someone to gang up with him against me. It's kinda annoying, and more then a bit immature. Whats really sad, it's mostly his dad. Drives me insane. But he does it, and I usually cave cause I don't want to put up with it and I don't want to hear about it. I pick my battles. I know whats worth it and whats not, just to keep the peace between us. Sure it's aggravating, but I know some things just aren't a priority. I do know he dosent like that I stand up when I feel it's needed. He feels like he can't talk to me any more. I feel the same. I feel like what I say is brushed off as unimportant, what I believe, and what I dream, is meaningless unless it's something he wants or thinks. I feel that anything I do is disregarded and disrespected. But at the same time. I feel he is the only one who listens. The only one who stands beside me, when the world is against me. It's a catch 22. There is good and bad in every relationship. I think people make it too easy for divorce. To easy to give it up and leave it all. Not for me. I won't put up with an abuser, but I can put up with some one who is a bit temperamental. He just has some growing to do yet. Like I know I do. With age I hope it gets better. Wish me luck.
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